August 31, 2005
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Oh gosh you will all *love* this .. .
I got an IM today from my ex. boyfriend . . .
Says that he wants his "stuff" back or he's gonna call the
cops. (I've had his key, and a bunch of gifts he's
given me). **edit**
His key, and just about everything else is already in the
mail. But there's just no way I can afford to give him 170
some bucks. no way. **end edit**How freaking low is that?? He gives me gifts . . but the
only way I'm allowed to keep them is if we stay together. We
break up . . .he takes 'em right back. *lol* I'm beyond
flabbergasted.He also says that I owe him 170 odd bucks that he used to buy a plane ticket for me to come visit him.
That he said he would pay for.
And now he wants that money??
When he makes 18 bucks an hour??
and I dont have a job??
Good lord. Can you believe that?? He says one
thing . . but means something totally different. I'm hurt . . I'm
amazed. . . and I'm beyond pissed off.and I'm tired. tired of dealing with this. He says he's calling the cops to get his money back.
I just still can't believe it.
Comments (7)
He can not call the cops to get his stuff back, that is absurd! He would have to file a report saying he had been robbed, mugged or something. If he calls and tells them his ex-girlfriend has taken off with his stuff, they will be pissed that he is trying to waste their time on something so petty.
They may advise him to take it to small claims court. Then he would have to "prove" that those things are his and were not gifts and I don't think he can do that. I think the only thing he is entitled to is the key.
In other words, he's full of horse manure.
When one is hurting, one may do crazy things to maintain contact with the object of their desire- even if that contact is negative. He doesn't really want his stuff, he wants communication with you.
Sorry I busted you Brian but really! Don't harrass her! It's not attractive, Honey! I'm sorry for your broken heart and I understand it. But, please, move on, you will feel better sooner, I promise!
Yeah, no kidding, let him call the cops. They will laugh at him. He ain't gettin' his $170 back. And frankly, I'm surprised you sent the gifts back. That's more than I would have done.
WOW, that's REALLY stupid!
Let him call the cops and they can laugh in his face.
I give this the BIGGEST eye roll EVER!!!!
Let him call the cops. They'll laugh at him!
LOL. Your bad. Tell the truth now, Or wait I can If you don't delete this comment. The truth of the matter is that I am not asking for any gifts back. I am just trying to get idems that have either be left there or barrowed back. None of these idems were a gift to you and you know that. Now for the money. You even promised me before I bought you that ticket, that you would pay me back. and tell them why I had to buy you that ticket. Oh wait I can do that to. I bought you that ticket because you made me cancelle my ticket for just days earlier. Why should I take the hit for buying Two ticket when you had the chance to let me use mine and your would never have come in to play????
The story weaves thicker. This is the first I've ever heard of this. "None of these items were a gift to you" . . . really? Gosh . . when you give something to someone (especially on christmas) or when you say "It doesn't matter, I'll take care of it, I just want to see you" . . . that tells me "don't worry about it" or . . "this is a gift". It shouldn't matter why . . when you offer to pay for something, thats what that says to me . . not that "oh, I'm offering it now, but later, I'm gonna make you pay me back if we break up."
Ehhhhhhh like $170 hope he never gets married and divorced!! If it were me I would just let it go, gifts I would not even think of taking back, but on the other hand stuff left behind or borrowed I would want them back too, especially if they were of sentimental value to me, but I would be prepared to come and get them if it were that important. All the best to you both, hope you can sort it out so both can have peace.
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